Saturday, December 25, 2010

South Suffolk/Pleasant Hill: A community where poor folks lived a rich life in Suffolk, VA - even richer than the rich

 Article IV, Vol 1
Reissued:  January 3, 2013

South Suffolk/Pleasant Hill: A Community to Behold in Suffolk, Virginia

 South Suffolk/ Pleasant Hill (SSPH)  is a community located in a 5.4 mile square area cradled in the southeastern part of  Suffolk, Virginia.. It is surrounded by railroad tracks and farm land. The main streets into the neighborhood are County Street and Spruce Street. By automobile or walking, just keep going south until you cross the railroad tracks.
      Family

 SSPH was a unique kind of community in the 40's, 50's, and 60's. Generally, family life was evident. When it was dinner time, the whole family would be present. If a family member did not like what was on the the table, he or she would have to wait until the next meal because there was no McDonald or Burger King in the vicinity. After dinner, family members would go their separate ways until bed time.
                                                                                                                                                                                      
                                                                            Christmas

 Christmas time was special. Seemingly, every child got a toy or something for Christmas. The children who had asked Santa for a big toy was content to receive a small toy. At least Santa had not forgotten them. The poor children, such as myself, were not in the frame of mind to try and figure out why our friend, who was an only child, usually got a room full of top line toys. In fact, he received more toys than me and my six siblings combined. We didn't try to figure it out.

 I remember Santa brought him two automatic six shooters and a complete cowboy outfit, plus an electric train. He couldn't figure out why Santa left so many toys at his house.  Bulemus (assumed name) was always willing to share his gifts with my family and other children in the community. We thought Santa left more toys at his house  because he had more space.  He wanted us to understand that he was a regular guy like us. To us, he was a regular guy.

 Me? I got a single shot cap pistol. Shoot and reload. Bulemus  could get off six shots before four of us could reload. We didn't really care as long as we were having fun.
    
                                                                        Business owners

 There were a lot of  individual skilled persons and self owned businesses in the community. Also there were independent owned stores such as Baker Street Grocery, Majett Grocery, Biggs Grocery, Mitchell Dry Cleaner, Griffin Shop; also painters, carpenters, and other skill persons.  Drive through vendors selling fish, crabs, watermelons and fresh vegetables drove slowly through the neighborhood daily during the spring and summer. If I listen carefully, I can still hear Mr.Thompson yelling,"Fresh fish and crabs today,just caught" .

You could get a good water melon for .25 cents and a mess of collard greens for .30 cents.
 Several families  marketed Enhanced Water(EW).  I can remember, in one block, 3 families marketed the product. There was no conflict - because the marketers had their own customers.

  My father worked at the Navy Ship Yard.  His pay was .75 cents an hour or $30 a week, before deductions. Seemingly, he was furloughed a lot. The small income made it hard for him to make a living with a wife and  7 children.  So, he went into the Enhanced Water business.  He was involved in the business as a manufacturer, wholesaler and retailer. This business enabled him to take better care of his family.  Still, it was not easy - but the family's welfare was much better than before the EW days.   The business helped my family stay intact.
                                                                        
 Playgrounds

     The community did not have any county supported playgrounds.  We made our own playgrounds.on vacant lots or fields. We would clean off a lot or field and put up a basketball goal or lay out a softball field.  Then after a year or two the owner or somebody would build a house or put a garden on the lot.  Then, we would go find another vacant lot. A lot of accomplished athletes came from the playgrounds of  South Suffolk. Among them were: Alex Cobb, J. R. Beale, Eugene Scott, Wilbur Cherry, Pete Barnes, Joe Riddick and William Harrell-Porter,(five years varsity football & four baseball), George Lee, William Bailey, Douglas Boone, and  in the 80's Lamont Strouters

  Of course, the youths in Suffolk city  had a nice playground. (we lived in Nansemond County which was a separate jurisdiction).
    
                                                                 Hard times?  If so,  we didn't know

     We ate well - Lots of fresh vegetables and fresh meat.  - Lots of exercise. Generally, starting in the 6th grade we walked about 2 to 2  1/2 miles to advance elementary & high school - rain, snow, sleet or sunshine - there was no school bus for the community.

  Poor? No, no, not us.  There was very little sickness in the community. When somebody took sick there was a lot of home remedy medicine available.  It worked.  Poor? Um, not us.
  The conditions that surrounded us in those years would be totally unacceptable today.  For example, no running water, outdoor toilets, water pumps, unpaved streets, hog pens in back yards, lack of enough street lights, wood stoves and heaters, a tiny "colored only" hospital with limited services and only 3 doctors  to serve the whole colored community in the county (we were colored then).They were Dr. Reid and his wife, Margaret and Dr. Diggs.  If you went  to the doctor, you had to be prepared to spend the whole day. Once the doctor determined a patient was not dying, he would slip out the back door and make his rounds and return 2 or 3 hours later.

 Only about 5% of the homes had indoor plumbing.  Everybody else had to take that walk to the out house.   See, we did not have one or two baths inside - instead we had two paths to the out house.
   
                                                Families working together & enjoying themselves

Families were generally willing to help each other perform major tasks - particular on hog killing days.  Several  women would gather and assist in making sausage, chittling, lard, soap and other products that are made from hog meat.  Men would gather and help with killing & cleaning the hogs. They would rejoice in cooking and sharing the oyster part of the hogs. All participants appeared to be so happy as they sung beautiful spiritual and blues songs all day..
                                                           
                                                              Children will be children
     
     Generally, children did not separate themselves by class. We all played together.
 To us, we were as rich as the rich, at least considering the joys and pleasures that we had. Children and families shared food and other items without giving it a thought.  Also, there was a lot of bartering between individuals and families. For example: a cup of sugar for a cup of flour or a cup of meal for some butter.
   
                                                  Stalwart citizens from the community
    
     From the background I described, emerged some of the nicest and well known citizens in Suffolk and around the country.  Among the well known former South Suffolk residents are:

   Amanda Riddick - Rogers (retired teacher and current ambassador for the needy in Suffolk); Susan Harrell - Bennett (ESH'52 - class Salutatorian retired teacher, community activist and spouse of a City Councilman; as a child and youth, seemingly, Susan always had a book in her hands everywhere she went); Ella Porter - Ward ( ESH '64- class Valedictorian, retired teacher, community activist and elected politician in Chesapeake,VA); Frank Kahan (president of the East Suffolk HS Alumni Assoc); Lamont Strouters (former NBA basketball player and he is still active in volunteering a lot of time with youths in and around Suffolk); Johnnie Barnes (former NFL player); Sandra Jean Deloatch  (Norfolk State University official); Mary Sebron - Stevenson, Annie Felton, amd Marion Bemory Wright (retired  teachers and community activists); Lelia Bell - Manley (retired govt worker, teacher & activist) and Evelyn Horton - Jackson (retired teacher and well known musician). There are many, many more.
                                                           
                                                                          Conclusion

     In appearance, we may have looked poor, but inside we felt rich and had a good time. Yes, living in South Suffolk was a good experience.

     Poor? Oh no, not us. We lived a rich life, even if it was only in our mind.

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Copyright 2010 Grady E. Bryant, 2010

 Reissued January 3, 2013

Copyright 2013 Grady E. Bryant, Sr.

Wednesday, December 22, 2010

Baby Due Soon: Delivery one minute before midnight on December 31st can make a difference of $5,000 in tax refund (real money)

Article III, Vol 1

    Doc, can our baby be delivered at 11:59 p.m. on December 31, 2010 instead of 12:01 a.m. on January 1, 20l1? What difference does it make? Well, if the baby is born in 2011, you may get your picture and the baby's in the local newspaper - the baby could be recognized as the first born in the region for the new year.
That sounds good.
    This is the flip side. If the baby is born in 2010, before midnight, and the parent or married couple income is at a certain level, the family may qualify for the following:  (1). an additional dependent, (2) $1,000 child tax credit (credit is cash, not a deduction), and (3) possibly an additional $3,000 in earned income credit ( real money).  Then, when  the State taxes are considered, the parent(s) could possibly be receiving a greater tax savings.

    Come December 31st, a lot of doctors and their staff will be waiting until the clock strikes midnight and racing to see who can be the first to deliver a baby in the new year.
    In a virtual conversation recently, a father told me he wanted the doctor to move a little faster in the deliver process and deliver their new born on December 31 in 2009 - instead the doctor waited until one minute past midnight to deliver the baby.
    The father said that when the clock hand struck midnight and the baby had not been delivered, "all he could do was cry, cry, cry". Of course, he was happy for the new baby, but he was crying because the baby did not arrive 2 minutes earlier, which would have been before midnight.
    Here is a little insight according to IRS's tax guidelines for 2009: A qualified head of household, with income of $16,500 could possibly qualify for over $3,000 in Earned Income Credit with one child and over $5600 with three dependent children.
    Also, a married couple, filing jointly, with a combined income of $21,500, if determined qualified, received over $3,000 for one child and more than $5,600 with three, qualified, dependent children.
    Now, I'm not in the new baby delivery business. It is a joy whatever time the baby or babies arrives. That being said, I wonder, how many persons are willing to ask the doctor if the delivery could be in 2010, if possible, without any complications.?  Then again, in many cases, it may not really matter.
    Another thing to consider in the delivery process, is insurance. The year of deliver could determine how much out of pocket expenses the parent or parents have to pay. But that is another story.
    In conclusion, what a difference a minute can make. Perhaps, in some cases up to $5,000 in real money in tax refund or savings!

Disclaimer: This blog is for information purposes only. It is not intended to be a basis for anybody to form an opinion about medical, tax, or any other life matters. I suggest that readers consult a medical professional, accountant, or a legal advisor before acting on any information presented in this blog. All information contained in this blog is subject to be updated, modified, or amended at any time.

Grady E. Bryant, Sr.

Copyright 2010 Grady E. Bryant, Sr.  All Rights Reserved.
 

Tuesday, December 7, 2010

Language Barrier: Is it me, Ebonics, improper English or just what?

Article II, Vol 1

     First alert

 I have wrestled with this question for a long time. Growing up in Suffolk, Virginia I just knew I could speak proper English - because everybody told me so - including my teachers at East Suffolk High School. This opinion changed rapidly in the spring of my junior year. My English teacher, Mr. Herbert Briscoe, Jr. brought a tape recorder to class.  He recorded the presentation of the top five speakers. My speech drew a loud ovation. I went to my seat feeling real good.  What happen next had a profound effect on my life.  Mr. Briscoe played the tape. I could not believe that was me speaking. I heard words like "yeing, heing, ain't gat, ain't chu, them thare," and a whole lot of poor English or near English pronunciations.
 Because most of us spoke that way, I realized then and there that I had to be my own critic. Our teachers  put emphasis on writing correct English, but very little emphasis on speaking. Listening to that tape recording let me know how I sounded..I was not speaking Ebonics, but just plain improper English..

 Consequences

I started working on improving my speech.  I had a long way to go.
My first year from home, reality knocked on my door. I joined the Army in 1960. During basic training in Fort Jackson, my platoon sergeant came to my barrack and asked for a soldier who was out. I answered, "Heing helin (he is not here). Then he asked, "Do you have a broom I can borrow? I replied, "ain't gat nay one helin (do not have one here). The sergeant said, "Soldier I don't really know what you said, but I think I figured it out."
As he walked away, I mused, "He must have trouble understanding English."
     
Speech improved

When I went back to my hometown. Many of my friends, accused me of trying to speak proper. I told them that I thought that  I was suppose to speak proper. Anyway, it worked out.
Finally, I got it together and improved. My self improvement made a difference in my military, college, work, family, and social life.

Teachers awareness

Today, my childhood situation still exist with many young and old persons in Suffolk.Why? Well, for one thing, many of the teachers, write good English, but they are trapped in the web speaking English improperly. Often the teachers reply may be, "been talking like this all these years, ain't no need to change now."
So the beat goes on.

 Need parents & students involvement

 For a change to come, it is going to be up to the students, teachers, and parents to implement changes. Speaking correct English does make a difference in the world beyond Suffolk or whatever little or big town you live in.

Closing Statement

Well, as for me, after all these years, and several hundred published articles, reports and stories, my writing is still a work in progress. My speaking has improved, but I'm studying to improve in that category too.
   
 Note
  The East Suffolk High School Alumni Association is scheduled to meet monthly in Suffolk, VA
                               
 Revised publication (original published December 7, 2010)  This is a Pre-Edited Release

Copyright 2010 Grady E. Bryant, Sr.  All Rights Reserved.